What is Split Energy?
As teachers of the law of the attraction, one question my husband and I hear all the time is “so if I want this so badly, why haven’t I manifested it yet? By the mere fact that I want it, shouldn’t law of attraction dictate that I should have received it already?”
The answer to that is, the law of attraction is not so much responding to your desires as it is to what you are being – your essence – and your vibration, which are both the energetic combination of your thoughts and feelings, beliefs, and actions. For example, if you are desiring more money, but every time you look at your bank account you think about how little is in there and you worry how you are going to pay rent, the vibration you are sending out is one of lack, which is not a vibrational match for more prosperity. This is one simple example of split energy.
I define split energy as when your thoughts, beliefs, feelings (both conscious and subconscious) and actions are not all 100% congruent. Hence the “split” in the energy – when you have split energy, your thoughts, beliefs, feelings, and energy are not all aligned with one another.
Here are more examples of split energy:
1) Consciously you say you want to be in a happy, intimate, & committed relationship, but either consciously or unconsciously, you have fears about what that would mean for you. Perhaps you fear getting hurt or you fear a loss of freedom of some sort. Etc. It could be any number of things. When I first did this I was clueless as to why Mr. Right hadn’t manifested, until I wrote out TWO PAGES of underlying, subconscious fears I didn’t even know I had! I attribute the wonderful, fun, and stable relationship I am in now to having cleared these fears a few months before meeting my husband. Having done the inner work paid off tremendous dividends. My experience with coaching clients on relationships is that once we clear the fears, the intimate relationship follows, typically within 1-2 months or less (sometimes it happens the next day!)
2) You want to lose weight, but subconsciously the weight provides some sort of a protective barrier for you, perhaps against being violated or hurt again etc. Most weight loss clients will reveal what that is when I Source™ them. Sourcing is an advanced form of EFT (Emotional Freedom Technique) which can easily and rapidly identify the root cause of a condition. My experience with weight loss clients is that once the emotional “charge” on the fears are brought down, easy and effortless weight loss follows.
3) You want to complete a project but keep procrastinating with it. Procrastination is almost always due to an underlying fear. This is another form of split energy.
How do I know if I have split energy?
The simple answer to this question is, you probably have split energy if you have wanted something for some time, feel you have “worked” on it, but it still hasn’t manifested. Beyond that, Source Technique™ is the most powerful technique I have ever seen or used to quickly, efficiently identify the root cause of someone’s split energy. There are also writing exercise you can do to help identify split energy.
How Can I Clear My Split Energy?
1) Go general. “Going general “means to look at something from a broader perspective then where you currently stand. I remember hearing the esteemed Michael Beckwith once say “the problem is, when you are stuck in traffic, you can only see the bumper in front of you, and you think you’re stuck in traffic with no end in sight. Whereas, if you could see up above from the view of a helicopter, you’d see that just a mile up the road, there is an accident and the traffic will clear soon.” Our lives are often like this traffic scenario.
Going general might look like looking at your bank account and realizing you have never actually been homeless, even though there is not as much money in your account as you’d like. Or looking at your dating life and realizing you have met some wonderful people lately, even though your ideal partner hasn’t shown up yet. Etc. When you go general, you are looking at things from a wider perspective. This alone should raise your vibrational frequency.
2) Identify your split energy and employ means to remedy it. This could take many forms. Ideally, you want to include some means of bringing down the “charge” associated with any fears or resistance you may be having once you identify them (EFT is ideal for this) and then re-programming your entire system for success. Usually this is done through affirmations. Guided meditations and hypnosis are also very powerful remedies for re-aligning energy. When your thoughts and feelings, beliefs and actions are all congruent, you are primed for ease and success of manifestations.
Having trouble identifying your split energy? Want to re-program your entire system for success? That’s what we are here for.
If you would like to explore how having a coach can help you align with and manifest your desires, email us at support@conscious-life-coaching.com. Put “I’d like to schedule a complimentary Discovery session” in the subject line. We’ll email you back within 48 hours with some available times. By the end of the session, you’ll have had a chance to 1) clarify your vision 2) identify some of what you blocks/split energy are 3) be given possible solutions.
Jennifer Gaynor-Yaker, CHt, is a certified life coach and hypnotherapist. She is also certified in Neurolingustic Programming and EFT with Source Technique™ at the mastery level. She specializes in helping people find and release their hidden blocks or “blind spots” that are holding them back so they can easily step into manifesting the life they truly desire. Her approach addresses all levels – mind, body, and spirit. She lives in Venice, CA, with her husband Richard who is also a life coach. Together, they own Conscious Life Coaching. The company’s mission is to help others co-create their ideal lives in the most conscious, joyous, and efficient way possible. E-mail them at support@conscious-life-coaching.com and put “I’d like to schedule a Discovery session” to receive a complimentary Discovery Session with Jen or Rich.